Welcome!

I’m so glad you’re here.  Like many gay and queer men, I grew up learning to hide large parts of myself to fit the script others had written for me. Long after coming out, I still prioritized others’ approval through achievement and conformity rather than trusting myself and listening to my intuition. Despite appearing successful and happy on the outside, I was silently battling low self-esteem, distorted body image, substance use, internalized shame, and issues with sex and intimacy.

A major life and career transition woke me up to the fact that I was still living someone else’s story, squandering my own joy, and holding back my talents and gifts. My ongoing personal journey has been one of self-discovery, building self-compassion, and learning to honor all parts of myself. While none of us will ever have it all “figured out,” the work I’ve done, including with some amazing coaches, has helped me become more content with myself, a more confident leader, and a more connected, more present, and happier man.

Today, helping other gay men on their journeys of self-actualization drives my coaching career. Together, we explore identity, self-image, health, wellness, gay culture, career, and personal meaning to create a life grounded in values and a greater ability to lead and improve the world.

Ready to start your journey toward a more fulfilling, authentic life? Schedule a complimentary session today, and let’s begin unlocking your true potential—not only for your own sake but to shine your light brightly for our community and a world in need.

Your Story

is just waiting

to be written.

360° COACHING FOR THE MODERN GAY MAN

In celebration of Pride Month and to make coaching accessible to more members of our community, all coaching packages purchased during the month of June will be discounted. Embrace your journey of self-discovery and growth with personalized coaching tailored to your unique needs. Schedule a complimentary intro session to learn more!

Celebrate Pride

with Special Discounts on Coaching Packages!

360° Coaching Services:

As gay men, finding fulfillment and maximizing our impact in today’s world requires an integrated approach rooted in an authentic understanding of who you are and the type of life you want to lead. I offer a 360° suite of coaching services that adapts to your unique needs, helping you align all aspects of life with your personal values and vision of success. Together, we’ll address the complexities of identity, self-image, health and wellness, career, and personal meaning, leveraging my experience and expertise to create a balanced, fulfilling life that truly reflects your authentic self and potential.

  • Life Coaching

    Navigate the complexities of gay life, find clarity, and leverage your innate strengths. Together, we’ll boost your creativity, work with internalized shame, and carve a path that’s authentically yours. to create a fulfilling life grounded in personal values, meaningful relationships, and a stronger sense of identity.

  • Business & Career Coaching

    Bring your career and business dreams to life with tailored coaching that aligns with your unique vision. We’ll build your ideas, clarify your value proposition, and prioritize essential actions while maintaining your well-being. Together, we’ll develop strategies that align with your goals, ensuring you stay true to yourself and thrive professionally.

  • Leadership Coaching

    Lead with authenticity and empathy through coaching designed to enhance your leadership skills. We’ll focus on helping you manage empathetically, inspire those around you, and bring your best self to work. By embracing your true identity and leveraging your strengths, you’ll become a more confident, effective, and inspiring leader.

  • Health & Wellness Coaching

    Achieve a healthier, balanced lifestyle with personalized health and wellness coaching. Set meaningful goals, develop a fitness routine, overhaul habits, and explore mindfulness practices to reduce stress and improve well-being. Workout planning and virtual fitness training is available to clients interested in these services.

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What clients are saying:

“Justin’s coaching helped to bring me peace of mind during a time when I felt overwhelmed by a mounting task list. Justin’s style of identifying the feelings associated with each task and laying out a clear path forward helped to calm my overwhelmed mind. I highly recommend Justin as a coach for his insightful, thorough , and empathetic style.”

-JOAQUIN SENA, ATTORNEY

“Justin is fantastic - he's got the right combo of relentless positivity, effective frameworks, and genuine interest in his clients' success.”

-RYAN MICKLE, ENTREPRENEUR

“Justin is an incredible coach - he asks extremely thoughtful questions and doesn't hold back from probing areas that need more attention. Even though there are some things I don’t usually like to think or talk about, he creates a space that makes me feel comfortable going there.”

-CAITLYN BALDRIDGE

The Triple-l Model

The Triple-L Model is a simple framework for exploring the most fundamental questions about who we are, what drives us, and the impact we want to have on the world. While each client’s needs are unique, I’ve found that every coaching journey touches on each of these areas to varying degrees.

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  • Light represents your true self—who you are, what drives you, and the unique gifts you offer the world.

    Embracing self-discovery, purpose-driven actions, creativity, and curiosity enables you to harness your unique strengths and make a meaningful impact. These mindsets guide you to live authentically and pursue your passions with confidence.

  • Love is about how you think about and treat yourself and others, recognizing your interconnectedness with the world.

    Cultivating self-compassion, empowerment, connection, and mindfulness promotes strong relationships and nurtures holistic health and wellness. These mindsets help you extend kindness and understanding, fostering a sense of community and well-being.

  • Leadership is about how you show up, communicate, and drive action toward a meaningful vision.

    Embracing authenticity, empathy, optimism, and resilience allows you to inspire others and foster a culture of trust and collaboration. By maintaining these mindsets, you can lead effectively and create a positive impact in your professional and personal life.

Let’s see if we vibe:

Schedule a complimentary, no-obligation session to get a sense of what coaching and working together is like.

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